Since time began men and women are different. They have different world views, different skill sets, and different ways of getting through life. Trying to convince men to me less “men” is not a winning theme. Men will never be as strong as women in some areas of life, and the reverse is also true. There is an old expression that it’s “better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war”. Once you start to understand this you might then start to under the nature of men, and why women need men to be this way. Asking men to be something they are inherently aren’t is a losing strategy for the long term survival of nearly everything because when the shit hits the fan nobody calls a feminist. I could write this exact same article only reverse the title.